She hates me!!

     Well, I guess I knew it would happen eventually.  My daughter hates me.  I figured with enough exposure to her mother she would be turned against me.  I chose to move here to watch out for my father.  I have "abandoned" her I guess.  She said last night, "I don't want to be your daughter anymore, because you don't treat me like one anyways!"   Cue tears.  WTF!  I have given this girl everything I possibly can except a car and a trip to Costa Rica.  She just sprang this on me Thursday night.  I said I would like to but don't have the 175.00  needed.  She gave me no lead time.  Just like usual for her.  Well now I am the worlds worst father.  It's fucked up.  I know T. blames my girlfriend for everything.  I was alone for eleven years.  Now, I finally find the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and T. is upset.  It's bullshit.  I love my daughter but this is too much.   I worked too hard to get sober to have her ruin it.  I am not going to wreck my current life because she and her mother are immature.  I said my Serenity prayer last night in front my girlfriend.  She was so supportive.  She asks nothing of me but love.  It's the way it's supposed to be.